Sugar Baby Maintenance

As a sugar baby you have to look good ALL of the time and be well versed. We are like trophies that need to be shined.

I work out 3 days a week with a trainer at the gym in my condo, I eat only organic foods, and I only eat small portions, unless I’m with Raul, and then I eat whatever and work out extra hard latter.

I am at the hair salon and nail salon once a week and always wear individual eyelashes.

Keeping up with the news is important, the stock market, and baseball (his favorite sport).

I do everything I can to keep him interested. Randomly sending a sexy photo or text, calling for phone sex while he is away on business, cooking him dinner. It is almost like being a wife, except you can’t nag --- ever!

Meeting Raul

My SB relationship with Jim lasted two years. I had to get out because I was falling for a married man and I knew he would never leave his wife for me. I saved a lot of money when I was with him.

I still worked at the hotel part time and I saved everything I made with that job. I was living at home, rent free, and only had to pay for a few things, actually just my cell phone bill and hair stylist. After six months with Jim I didn't pay for anything. He put money in my account every week and when we were out he paid for everything.

I wanted a new car and he leased me one, I wanted to go to Hawaii, we went. All I had to do was ask. By the time our relationship was over he’d given me $68,000 in deposits, set me up with stock, and leased me a car. So when it was all said and done I purchased a condo in Chicago.

I was doing fine. I transferred with my job, bought a car, and was making some really great friends, like “Ashley.” Ashley had a sugar daddy in Chicago and wanted to make sure I had one too. I wasn’t sure how to enter into a relationship, since my first was a fluke, and I was kind of nervous. However, I knew how easy your life could be with a sugar daddy taking care of your needs. I was only in Chicago for four months and I met “Raul.”

I played 3rd wheel to Ashley and her beau for a charity auction. Ashley’s daddy wasn’t married, just old, and he paraded her around like a life size Barbie. ---Now I could never date a man 30 years older than me, but it worked for them. However, there was a younger man that was interested in me. His name was “Raul,” and he was very handsome. We talked all night, in the morning, had lunch together, and really enjoyed each others company. Within 30 days we started “dating.”

He was already aware of my needs and wants and was more than willing to give. He does everything for me. Now I still have a job, God forbid if anything happened ---but I have my daddy too!

For Starters

I entered into my first sugar baby relationship on a fluke and became hooked to the life style.

My 1st was in Portland, and I met a really great guy working at a hotel downtown. Let’s call him “Jim.” He would stay at the hotel 3-4 days a week on assignment for his job. We spoke to each other on occasion and one day he asked me out. Of course I said yes and we went to dinner, Thai, to be exact.

We starting going to dinner every week, talking on the phone at night, and I really enjoyed him. My 21st birthday was coming up in January and I wanted to go to Vegas. I saved my money got a great room with my friends and we enjoyed ourselves. While in Vegas I received a call from Jim asking me to go to the concierge desk, because he left a present for me. When I walked down he was standing there with flowers.

I was soooooooo surprised and excited!!! I ditched my friends and we went to dinner and then he took me shopping. He had never bought me anything before, so I didn’t know what to expect, however by the wee hours of the next morning we already spent $8,000 dollars (and he would have spent more)!!! I went to breakfast with Jim in the morning and he laid it on me. He was married, had a daughter, but was unhappy, blah, blah, blah. I actually cried, because I assumed our relationship was real, but then something came over me and I was determined to milk this for what it was worth ---hey I was wearing a brand new YSL jacket.

This is how I landed my first sugar baby relationship and heartbreak at the same time. I still see him whenever I’m visiting California and he always surprises me with something good, but I’m in Chicago now with a new daddy and a new outlook on life.